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If she had posted her info at one time that must mean she is searching. I would try sending the 2nd letter but send it (I can't remember the name) so that you get a receipt when it is delivered.
Also, if you have found an address or phone number on a web site - like white pages etc., it still may not be valid. I've found addresses of people who have been deceased for a few years still on some of those web sites.
If there is no answer to this 2nd letter, I would give it a month or so and try calling. That way you will know for sure if it is the right person.
And another thought. She may have found her son and even though some of the info. matches your husband she may not be his bmom. Also, she may have been ill - oh there are so many scenarios.
I wish you the best of luck. I've been there and done that. Sometimes its a "waiting game" and other times there are false leads.
Snuffie
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