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Old 05-08-2008, 01:57 PM
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If you mean should both sides do what is in the best interest of the child, then yes, I think it is that way. I don't think aparents, or bparents should run each other down in front of the child at all (I don't think they ever need to run each other down, but definitely not in front of kiddos).

If both sets of parents could put their own insecurities aside and focus on what is best for the child, then I think that is a successful open adoption. Sounds easy, huh? Of course, real life happens, and it's never as easy as it sounds.

Great question, oceans.
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