[Oceans]

Thanks Denise... I kind of left it open to interpretation. My thoughts are that in a divorce parents focus on the child and work separately on their relationship and what they need to do so that there is minimal long term impact.

Is that what OA feels like at times? (hopefully less any nasty divorce bitterness)...

Or is there bitterness after a certain number of snubs etc (by either bparents or aparents)...

If divorce should have minimal impact... should adoption be minimized as well?