|
I would send him the letter. IMO he is old enough and I've always thought that keeping adoption a secret is just plain wrong. We need to know the truth. We need to know our medical history.
If your son did not know he is adopted, he may be going through a lot right now. But even if he knew he was adopted, he still be going through an awful lot right now.
I think young males (I have two boys of my own) tend to take a bit longer to mature and are more apt to go play soccer or racquet ball etc. than delve into their innermost feelings. But eventually they do think about things. I wouldn't be concerned that it seems to be taking a while. (Easy to say, I know.)There could be so many scenarios - He needs to talk things over with a friend, or he may be away or working horrendous hours.
We're here waiting right along with you! Please keep us posted.
Snuffie
|