[Teresa K]

dlouis,

By law, and a clause of ICPC a "birthparent" has to be told who to send bills to. In my case there was a medical card, for 90 days ONLY. There were serious medical complications that continued past then. Part of counseling was covered, although not all. There was a serious lack of communication between the agency, the contracted family, and both lawyers the "adoptive family" hired. I had NO legal representation whatsoever. Normally a "birthparent" does, and by law I had to. By law there is no adoption, although there are papers there are MANY violations. Fraud was proven well within the legal time frame. I reclaimed well within the legal time frame too. But it seems the pros are all blaming one another.

Futhermore, it was twin boys. Not a child. AND, please stop telling me I am angry. Geeze, I am coping quite well, had a very nice day with my children (the ones the agency says I do not have). I have had more counseling than I care to talk about, all he says is I face it better than he ever would, and although I deserve to be angry I try to find humor among the fools I am dealing with. Most of the time we turn them into jokes, laugh about getting bogus restraining orders if someone files a complaint. IE...I got a ticket for my neighbors illegally parked car (BIG mistake), my BF told me to get a restraining order so cops can not come to my house. I am getting a bit upset over being told I am angry though..disgusted with the system for darn sure

Teresa