I know my birth would not be listed, in a newspaper, as I was unwanted. Listings are at the discretion of the birth mother and I believe her secrecy was so valuable that the last thing she would do is announce my arrival. U were fortunate to find Ur b/family in that way, but that is an exception, not a rule. I have been searching for 30 years. Some mysteries just aren't solved. I believe I am 1 of those cases.
