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birthmothers:
You made a decision in life to adopt your child. IF YOU could not make your own decision at that time, WHY do you think you could or should have kept your child?
Did it ever cross your mind some of us were lied to? Some of us are not ANGRY, we have been through hell and are devastated. Have you ever been in a very stressful situation where decisions made in haste based on what you were being told? Did you ever once in your life make a wrong decision, yet have someone tell you you are angry????
How would you feel if hours after surgery some lawyer was in your room with papers?? Would you actually read them? Or sign them to get him to go away? I feel it is not very fair of you to judge ANYONE until you have been where we were. I pray your next post does not tell anyone they should have kept their legs crossed but somehow I will not be shocked.
In exchange for sharing the definition of gift, I shall share another:
Greed:acquisitive selfish desire beyond reason
That fits the people who have my children MUCH better.
Thanks for reminding me today about what hell really is. Hope your Thanksgiving weekend gives you something to be thankful for. Teresa
Last edited by Teresa K : 11-28-2003 at 05:07 PM.
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