No, I was not
"judging you". I was only responding to what I read in your post. You said
"Her newest one is so self involved and so immature. His insecurities are driving me crazy." and
"I am really stupid though, cause I let him stay in our home sleeping on our sofa." Seems to me you made a judgment on yourself.
I also believe in kindness towards others and helping people when they need it. However, you did mention that he could have moved in with his own Mother. Considering the relationship with your daughter, your disapproval and the fact that he is still married, personally I just feel that would have been more appropriate. Again, not
"disapproval" or
"judging", just an opinion.
