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Hi Anna, Thank you and you are right. Everything that goes wrong always has been and will continue to be "my fault" Maybe when she matures she will see it differently. I always try to be there for her and anyone else who needs help. Since he was her friend, and yes "boyfriend" and needed some place to live for a while I didn't see anything wrong with that. I would hope someone would be kind to my child if I wasn't there and they needed help. I don't think twice about stopping to help someone in need. So why not someone my daughter knows. I may of been reading it wrong but I sensed disapproval and felt like you were judging me, dlouis. If I am wrong, I will apologize right now, but if I am not I don't think it is justified. I have always taught both of my daughters to show, and practice kindness to everyone. Yes, sometimes that kindness is misused, but often not. Often, it is greatly appreciated. Oh and as far as encourging my daughter to continue the realtionship with a self centered 23 year old, well, I didn't know he was that way until I got to know him better. And he could have worse faults. These are some with maturity he can outgrow.
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