I have a 23 year old daughter. She is immature for her age. She is constantly choosing boys that are no good for her. She is constantly "looking for love" often when her relationships fail she accuses me of ruining them. All I did was make a comment about what was wrong with the boy and try to make her see his faults. For example one of them smoked pot. Her newest one is so self involved and so immature. His insecurities are driving me crazy. I am really stupid though, cause I let him stay in our home sleeping on our sofa. He was kicked out of his apartment cause his room mates found someone who could pay more for rent. His family is from another state. He also is 23 and is going through a divorce which isn't final yet. I love my daughter so much and I want her to be happy. I didn't want this boy to sleep in his car, and he told my daughter it was either that or he would have to move back home with his mom. I do some what like him, and I am hoping that he will out grow this self centerness for my daughter's sake. I want to point this out to her, but I know that would be a big mistake cause she will through it up in my face if and when they break up. He is saving up the money for a security deposit and a few months rent so he will be out soon and in his own apartment. My question (sorry this is so long) keep my mouth shut? Tell my daughter what I think?