Thread: Love vs. Loving
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Old 11-20-2003, 01:49 PM
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Of course you're welcome here...

I have a question, however. You've written very movingly, but I need to ask, are you talking about love as in action or love as in emotion (feeling)?

Because speaking for myself those are things I do because they are right, not necessarily because of how I feel. Does that make sense?

Don't get me wrong -- I love my daughter -- I'm not one of those people who is struggling with my feelings for her. But because I'm someone for whom love grows overtime, I can imagine someone worried about how they are feeling about their new child.

It doesn't matter how I feel, it matters what I do.
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