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I think this might have happened between my husband and bio son. When our son finally came home from the hospital - - he was in the NICU for 6 weeks because of being premature - - my husband had to change jobs so that we didn't have to put him in daycare. But that meant that my dh had Baby Duty from 7:30am til 5:00 pm, and he hadn't really bonded with the baby at all while he was in the hospital.
The first couple of months was very very hard on all of it. I didn't want to go back to work, and dh didn't want to be the "at-home" parent all day long. But then, something happened... He fell in love.
Now, he loves our son as much as I do.
Luckily, in the beginning, he was forced to be loving towards him, and then realized that the force didn't need to be there any more.
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