happymom,

There was NOTHING sexual about my sons behavior. I have 5 children and this is the first time I had seen anything like that. He had an innocent crush on a teacher.

The monster that abused your child would have thought blinking was flirting...he was the one with the problem. Not little children that do cute things...and NO I do NOT encourage ANY sexual fliration nor do I think it is CUTE.

Please be careful, I think I would be devasted if my child was abused, but not every action can be deemed "sexualizing" a situation. If we continue on that vein, we would be causing lots of parania and confusion in our children. Yes, we need to be vigilant...but we also need to have reason.

Donna