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Thanks so much LucyJoy for your kind words of wisdom and support. I tell you after reading your response, I can truely say I need to journal our day to day activities. We were doing them, but not on a regular. We are in some counseling, but not as a family or group. My daughter would love to keep in touch with prevous foster parents but they are hard to get in touch with and don't really want to respond to her. I feel they think it would be best for her. My husand and I have talked to them initial, and everything they said to us about her is incorrect. Unless we haven't seen that side of her yet! The daughter they had and the daughter we got are TWO different persons! We do have a therapist,but she won't be able to see us until the end of this month! Two months without any therapy. Our daughter does have a psychologist and is in bio-feedback, it seems to be working through her anxiety. She was previously on a number of meds, and went cold turkey before arriving with us! I had no idea we were making this worse by letting her see us react to her negative behavior. I will talk with my husband about that. It does seem to work for her, when she thinks she is in control. I will look at the links you suggested with my husband. Thanks so much for reading me vent and exhale. Our honeymoon comes and goes, but by far last night was the worst night of my life as a parent.
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