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Lewey,
What you do depends on what you feel you can live with. If you can emotionally handle the present relationship until he matures, then let it go and enjoy the time you have together.
I have an idea that at 22, interference from his social life (especially if he's single) is probably more at fault than any conscientious testing decision. My daughter (whom I raised) was very busy with her own life during the 19 to 25 age span. She spent many holidays travelling with friends, while I sorely missed her presence at home festivities. When she finally married and settled down she once again found room in her schedule for her parents.
I guess what I'm saying is that it may not be be about you or adoption. It may be about the blonde, brunette or red head he just met! LOL
A nice light hearted letter, or humorous card, letting him know you miss him might be plenty.
Trish
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