[blessed with 2]

I can completely relate to your post. We already had a biological daughter, and we really wanted a son. We felt we could only adopt once, and didn't feel like we would be complete without our son. It was a little easier, since we were on the other side of the availiability, but I still had problems specifying a boy. I really feel that God placed the desire in our hearts for a son. When our son was born, we were the couple waiting the longest for an AA boy, and we had only heard about the agency 1 month earlier! God had it all in His hands, and I spent hours agonizing over nothing! I would specify a girl if I were you, but continue to pray that God would lead you. If He changes your mind and hearts, then let the agency know, but if not, know that he has a little princess in store for you! I am now sitting with my 11 month old precious boy in my lap, and I thank God for His mighty plans!