Hello~
I really want to thank all birthmothers. You gave your own child away because you could not care for him/her. Whatever your reasoning was, you thought enough to HAVE us and give us to a loving family!! Rather then keeping us in whatever unwanted state, or harm.
I know for every situation it is different, there are all of the "gone BAD" stories! But I think that there are alot more good stories! Unfortunatley you always here about the bad more
I have read A LOT of negativity about adoption when my search started (I am an adoptee) SO many BAD things happening in this industry, ITS SAD
I grew up knowing I was adopted from the earliest age I could start to understand!! I was always told (me and my brother) that we were special. Adoption was a good thing, spoken very freely, WITHOUT actual relationships with bparents. I know there are NO perfect families, and mine wasn't to say the least! BUT even when I (IF I) meet my birth parents, I would thank them. I would thank them for thinking about me, for giving me a better life!
JILL