Being a mother of both adopted and biological children, I can honestly say one is not "easier" than the other. Both have psoitives and negatives to them. My first pregnancy was very difficult and I was pretty miserable the whole time. However, it resulted in a beautiful son and I would not trade that experience.
After three failed placements, our perfect baby boy was born july 2nd. Although his match and placement went very smoothly, the rest of the adoption experience was very emotional. I have to say that it was very nice to not have the physical recovery time that comes with having a biological baby. I was able to enjoy our new son without being in so much pain. However, I was having morning sickness and was on an intense hormone therapy so that took some adjustment.
I try not to worry to much about what others think. I have gotten used to rude comments and peoples ignorance. My husband and I are an interracial couple with biracial children. We know that some people cal not help being so stupid! We are happy and love our family. That is all that matters to us.
