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Expectations...
I have never really thought about expectations, now they are all I can think about. Mostly from reading about what adoptee's think after reunion.
I am absolutely terrified that I will not live up to my sons expectations. Since finding him I know that my sons family is well off, while I am not in poverty I certainly do not drive a BMW. What happens when an adoptee comes from a very materialistic background and meets his other family who are well not materialistic? Does that matter? What if I am so different that he doesnt want to have a relationship with me? Are these normal fears to have?
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