Risking an onslaught of different opinions, I do have to ask, only because I'm new at this, very confused, and really want to do the right thing.
I wholeheartedly agree, that when we adopt, they are OUR children, Period. Insenstive, crass, rude or hungry for foot people, can take a hike with a kite.
BUT! It almost feels like an oxymoron when there is so much advice in telling our children they are adopted. "11 months old is not too early".
Is there a delicate balance that aparent have found? Any secrets?
Keana
