I had a similar comment over the weekend:
At my son's Baby Shower, my aunt said, "You're going to love this child like he's your own". "He IS my own" was my reply - along with my *smile*.
I know she didn't mean it that way, but then she went on to say, "you know you'll get pregnant now that you've adopted don't you?".
That's another popular comment among folks. It's as if adoption is a "cure" for infertility.
