Thank you--- jodyk--- what you say makes complete sense! And Thank you for being the Foster Parent that you are.
I hope It didn't sound like I was saying there is anything wrong with the way most Foster Families use their funds. I know the "pay" if that is what they call it is so low that it hardly covers anything..... It sounds like you do place the kids needs as important and I am sorry to hear your little boy came back to you empty handed.