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Old 10-21-2003, 11:01 AM
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ladyjubilee....

I was only referring to this post in which the original poster said she was looking to adopt and are in the foster to adopt program. They were hoping this child would be the one and it turned out not to be. This is a different situation then a Foster care home without the intention to adopt, don't you think?

You might shower this child with toys and items thinking they will be adopted and then when they are not, it would appear you punish them by taking those items away. This just doesn't make sense to me. I'm sorry.

If the other parents don't want the stuff, let them be the meanie and tell the child no!
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