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Hmmmmm......I dont know any better because I was taken away from my mother when I was a baby. I am not sure how many months the abuse took place before me and my 2 sisters and brother were removed permanantly from that home. I have learned that my adoptive mother and father were abusive drug users who didnt have a proper upbringing themselves. They were both abused as children and became abusers themselves. I have compassion for them and forgive them for the abuse...maybey it is because I dont remember....my brother and one of my sisters have severe mental dissorders tho...I think it was fetal alcohol syndrom. Can they forgive? Have they forgotten? I dont know. I want to find out more about my bmom and bdad. I am not ready to meet them but, I want to know if they are still alive. I want to find out if they ever got help for their problems. I want to know if they found Christ! I had a happy adoptive family and a good life with them...but, I just have all these questions and I want answers for them. I am not sure how adoptees feel when their mothers give them up at birth...i havent been there....
Hope this helps you in your quest to know how adoptees feel when they are taken away.
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