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Regarding Unmarried status
Yes, there are some agencies that won't work with unmarried couples, but I have not encountered them.
Only one of the unmarried couple will likely be approved to adopt. Perhaps there are some out there that are unmarried and have adopted together? It would be great to hear about their experiences.
I was married at the time of my daughter's adoption, but unrelated to the adoption (long story) we separated and divorced four months after. In my situation the failure of my marriage had nothing to do with the adoption. However, realistically, a child does stretch the boundaries of relationships and should be carefully considered by any single or couple. Children are a joy, but they are also challenging when your life has not been full of experience with them.
The best advice I could give you is do your research well. As much as you might want an agency to approve and work with you, remember that YOU ARE THE CONSUMER, and THEIR client. You are paying them for their service and you MUST be comfortable in working with them. There are plenty of agencies out there and programs to work with. You'll find your way. We all have.
Good luck,
PARVENAH
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