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This is one of the questions you always think there must be some magic answer for....
I think the answer phasing would be dependant on if you are adopting a newborn and the birthmother is selecting or if you are dealing with the state... The content is the same, the way it is said is what would change....
I can only speak for my situation and we adopted siblings from the WAITING child role at our state. We told our caseworekr we knew that with alot of money, time and drugs we would be able to force science into giving us a newborn...but, we felt wrong about that choice...we felt if we had that much money to spend and time to use we should look at children who needed a home more then anyone.
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Last edited by HappyMomAnna : 10-18-2003 at 10:52 AM.
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