www.skyinet.net/~icaba/
This has alot of good information on it....also at the bottom is the ICAB's email address where you can email them your specifics and they will email you back within a week or two or you can call them....remember, they're 12 hours ahead of us....
There's also a couple of other good threads with good information on them....one is titled new and need advice...there's alot of good information on that thread too...
Best of blessings to you and your wife,
Melody