[rahulsmom]

Liz, I understand where youre coming from. When we thought we would have to give our son "back" a few months ago, I kinda went through the same thing when I wondered what should my son take with him and what stays. And looking back my thoughts and reactions were more out of hurt than anything else. When you bring a child home you give much more than just $$$, you give your heart. And when things change, you think with your heart and again its not only about $$$...

Its not easy and I'm not telling you what or what not to do, just wishing you strength to handle this in the best way for both you and your foster daughter...