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I am so glad that you understand where I was coming from. When I gave my beloved son to adoption, I was 16, confused, overwhelmed and I felt alone. I gave him up willingly, for his best interests. I always had a big hole in my heart UNTIL we were reunited. I was in a bmother support group. How surprised was I when I kept hearing other bmothers, over and over with that same "hole in the heart" syndrome.
I also found out that a lot of these young girls were sent to the maternity homes and some were not allowed to see or hold there babies. They were told that "you will get over it" and "life will go on" I think that some adoptees don't know of the torture that some bmothers have endured. I don't know how any birthmother can forget or deny her child.
I am off topic, I am sorry.
CAROL
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CAROL IN SF
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