Oh Jody, please don't be offended. Maybe my views are radical?
In my view, as a birthmother, the most wonderful way anyone can honor there bmother is to honor her on Mothers Day. My son always sends both me and his mother a card and a phone call on Mothers Day. It brings JOY to my heart for him to show me that love. I don't want anything on birthmothers day, to me it would just be a reminder of the hurt and what happened.
GOD IS GOOD!
CAROL S IN SF