We were told our lawyer does NOT do these steps so the changes will be up to us to make.
lucyjoy is correct on the SS#'s it is very simple. As for the birth certificates I think you need to apply for an amended certificate to be sent to you....just like we did at birth and we had to mail in a check.
I am not sure about the medical records...I do know that the CDC tracks immunization records which come from the doctor. Also medical insurance would have a legal name.... I personally, think that to avoid any confusion I would get the Birth Cert, change SS#, change medical info and the school records. It would be terrible if things got all jumbled up later.....like when she applies for student aid or loans and then there is a delay and well... Do all the things you did when you got married to make sure you were who you are...plus the birth cert.....that is if you took your husbands name
