[BrandyHagz]

Have you and your spouse talked about turning down the PCS? I know it can sometimes look bad...but under the circumstances, I think the command would look upon the request favorably.

If that isnt an option, then can you locate an agency in the state that you are in that can work with you? Handle the placement and finalization in the state you are in now, even tho you dont live there?

I know that if you are stationed overseas, they will allow you to adopt and finalize in your HoR...so that might be an option...

Another would be adopting thru the state....it could take a while, but could be nearly free...

I wish you luck...doing anything while in the military is hard...but it becomes REALLY hard when you have to PCS.