Hi Taryn,
Didnt get to name my son as such as he came in with a name already. Had a choice for his second name and DH decided that only his own name was good enough. So opted for Marc - spelt differently from DH's name ~ Mark.
A lotta Marks in my life... and I love all of them....
I also thought of:
Boy: Matt, Nathan, Joshua, David
Girl: Mikayla, Danielle, Ana
Had some more names but cannot remember where I put them.
Incidentally DH is Mark Allan...if that helps. I like Kaden and/or Stella from your list.
In the end I guess you have to go with what your DH thinks is okay, this is one of those things where you kinda have to agree...
Methinks, when you see the baby flashlights will go off and the right name will come to you - like I saw this little angel and I knew if I were to bring her home, her name would be Anokhi (meaning unusual) and DH liked that name too.
Anyhow, now I'm rambling again so good luck...
Best wishes,
Karen