The most important things we give to children are not of a material nature. The important things are not tangible like: love, caring, morals, consistency, a feeling of safety, and of being valued. Sending a child out of your home with a bunch of videos is not as important as sending a child on with feeling that she is valued and important.
I do not believe that giving a child the material things they want is nearly as important as giving of your time, attention and love.
Oh and if you get that divorce lawyer, he will end up with the videos
