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The other side
I am a counselor at a child kind center where we have both types of children the abusers and the abused. Most are from foster homes also. They always break my heart when the girls come in and I see the pain they have gone through and they open up to me and then I also listen to the abusers. To me the best bet would be a long term facility for the child so theyy can get him into a theraputic setting and transition him into a independent living enviroment.The state laws here do not allow for the abuser to be in the home home with the abused. Yes you did make a commitment to the child but in return he needs to respect all members of your family. Without proper treatment for both sides the cycle can continue.I would love to try and help you with any questions you have about this and remember that some of the hardest choices you make are out of love for a child.
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