[HarrysGirl]

I am sure she is on a rollercoaster ride of emotions not knowing what to expect when she leaves your home. She wants to be with her dad but at the same time is scared about leaving what she knows.

If she questions anything else between now and the time she leaves, try not to give quick answers.

I have learned that children spend a lot of time thinking about something and then spring a question on you out of the blue. When you told her she could have half you did not have any time to really think about what you wanted to do. At this point you have committed to giving her half and I would follow through, but it is up to you which half you give her. I agree they should not be rated R. Then try to be fair and give her some of the favorites and keep some for a future child in your home. You can decide which ones you want to give her and wrap them up like a gift and tell her these are the videos I have decided to give you as a gift for your dads home if it is okay with him.

When my children asked questions about some future event or something they wanted to do. I usually tried to give answers like "let me think about that", "I am not sure" or "we can discuss it later". Because children are very smart about getting what they want when you are not thinking.

I believe she is the child and you have to make the decisions as to what stays and what goes. Also don't feel guilty about whatever you decide.

Good Luck