This message was originally posted by
3boysmom.
Ok.............After I read Mariah's post I was ready to immediately jump with both feet, so I decided to take time to cool off before I posted anything.
So I painted my hallway, did a load of laundry, cleaned the kitchen, and mopped the floors, and I am still steaming mad so here goes.
First off after Lucy's post I posted a thank you and I let it go, but no one else seems to be able to let it go.
Seceond, I deleted everything that I had posted at the other site because it was so upsetting to other people. I was asked to move it here so I did.
Can someone please make up my mind for me?
Now to get a few things straight. You can bash me all you want but under NO circumstances do you bring my children or my sister into it. My sister is alot of years younger than I am so is there fore like one of my children. She has no idea that I have even posted anything and she is not the one who I was looking for information for. She is very happily raising her partners beautiful daughters.
When you see a straight couple walking down the street do you think about them "sexing" each other? Personally I think that the act of sex itself is a nasty, disgusting thing! So if you do not think of what a man and woman are doing in the bed room why would you think about any other couple having sex?
Another thing, if it is so offensive why do you keep reading the posts? You know what is there, don't click on it. That would stop alot of the bickering.
Now my last point................ever wonder what would make some one gay/lesbian? Granted this is not true of all couples but since you wanted to bring my sister into this let me tell you a thing or two about what made her make the choices that she made.
Imagine being a 12 year old little girl, with all of your life ahead of you, popular, pretty, smart, and extremely involved with the church. Now imagine being that same little girl, at a youth church camp and having your youth minister climb in your tent and rape you.
Now tell me what would your thoughts be? Mine was to kill him, no other thoughts even entered my mind, she chose to help put him in jail for the rest of his life, which she did. She also from that day on swore that no other man would ever touch her and she stuck by that, she also stuck by her church and continutes to be actively involved with it. So before you start casting stone make sure that you know all of the facts.
I sit here with tears running down my cheeks and I want to thank you for dredging up all of those old memories. As you will notice if you took time to look I asked for POLICIES nothing more. In no way did I ever mention the word "sex" in ANY of my posts until this one.