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You get to make all the decisions about "stuff". If it was given to her as a gift, it is hers, if not, you choose whether to make it one.
Most the things my kids brought with them from other homes, they busted within weeks. Chances are, her father has already bought her some nice things and with all of your may be too much for her. She's nervous and clutching onto stuff because she cannot control anything else. Don't discuss the stuff with her.
Maybe you can say some prayers with her-thank you for letting us spend this time together and thank you for a dad that loves her and let her add whatever else she wants. If she's making up stories about mom, I would gently correct them. I see you're feeling angry or sad about mom but- whatever fits.
Sounds like you've done a good job. Keep the R rated movies, that would just open up a can of worms that needs to stay shut.
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