Cathy .. hope you have a great week-end and don't stress too much on what S's decision will be. I have been told many times that things happen in God's good time .. and on his timetable and I am sure if this is the right baby for you then your family will be chosen when the decision is made. If not, then God must have another plan for your family.
Stacy -- I think you and your husband were wise to say no when you felt uncertain about this adoption. I am not overly religious, but I do believe God has a plan for our lives and he lets us know what he expects of us and when. My heart goes out to you and your husband . Take care.
