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Old 10-01-2003, 09:16 AM
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Well, we were matched with a child after a long process of homestudy's, classes and waiting. We were so excited and elated, it was like our feet weren't touching the ground. We had our hearts set on this little girl and now our dreams were coming true. Well, we had our meetings with the professionals for her and things just weren't right and now my husband and I don't know if we are going to proceed or not. We are very scared. The information we got wasn't what we thought it would be and there are a lot more problems then we were told. We don't if this is right for us or not. We have a meeting with our social worker tomorrow so we will discuss our concerns with her and see what she has to say.

I can't believe that we are being offered a child and don't know what to do. I have always thought that I would take a child the second someone said yes and now I'm having second thoughts. It's hard and confusing, has anyone else felt this way. Please help me straighten out my feelings.

Stacy