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One of the first things our worker told us was "don't jump at the first child your matched with just because your affraid that child is your only chance." She told us if it does not feel right, then we should say no. I know it's hard, but if you don't feel like it's right than it probably isn't. There is a child out there for you.
Don't jump at this one in fear of no other children being there. It would not be good for you or the child. I guess all I can say is if your heart isn't in this one, then she may not be the one meant for your family. I am sorry.
Good luck and keep the faith.
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Mom to 2 bio sons (11&7) and a 6yr old girl by adoption, home 4-ever on 7/3/04!!
Dreams do come true!!
"I have nothing to fear, and here my story ends.
My troubles are all over,and I am at home"
From Black Beauty by Anna Sewell
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