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snow princess
Im not denying anyone anything. I was talking about ME and how I feel. I said "I would have a hard time telling my girl how much I thought about her all these years, how hard it was to do what I knew was best for her and it was done only out of love for her - but I didn't even remember her birthday."
I did NOT speak of anyone else. Someone above said "It isn't about you, but rather her inability to cope with loss and pain" I dont agree with that. To me, it IS about my girl. My feeling of pain and loss is secondary. Others may feel different. I dont tell them that they lack compassion if they feel different than me. I NEVER said anything about others not loving their child. Thats your words.
My friend from the home and I have always got together on our girls birthdays. Not really a celebration but a memory time. I dont think anyone that was with us at the home would forget. There was lot of sadness but smiles to. Most were strong young women facing reality. Everyones different but those I knew would remember the special day.
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