...also remember, women are typically innate nurturers, men are not. We fall in love at the sight of a baby, a kitten, a puppy, etc. Men initially see them as another responsibility, another mouth to feed. They take longer to bond...but OH, when they do.....! After years of convincing my husband to foster, he finally agreed. He was and is an absolutely wonderful foster daddy...the kids bond to him before they do to me! He's also a wonderful daddy! Not meaning to stereotype, guys... just speaking generally and from my experience. I also am aware that my husband doesn't like change much, whereas I am excited by it if it positive change, of course. Again, my 2 cents.
