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Originally posted by AMom2Two
Amom4life.....you wrote......"I think maybe men guard their hearts more than we do. I think it will all be fine in the end. I also think men tend to think of the finances more too."
I agree with Amom4life so much. My husband is the same way which is sometimes good because I'm so emotional about things. He seems to sit back and take that protector stance. I don't know about most men, but my husband seems to see things in black and white, and I have to keep reminding him that there are grey area's in this world and it okay to be in the grey at times and still be happy and scared at the same time. Most men, I think, freeze when they are in the grey because they are scared and if they have a wife that is emotional, then they feel it is their job to keep a level head.
Just my thoughts, good luck to you. Don't let his grey attitude take away from your happiness right now, as if anything could ???right ???
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Reading your post hit a cord with me. Maybe he is not in a comfortable place right now...feeling very vunrable(sp). I really guess it would not be as bad if he just would keep it to himself. He feels he needs to rain on my parade and I want him to stop.
I know he will be fine when all is said and done but I have to get there from here.