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Hi Danielle
I have not been in your shoes but I did want say something about your dads concern/comment that you don't know what you are getting into or subjecting your children to by adopting - that they might not get along with new brother and/or sister. Well there is no guarantee that biological children will get along either, we are all individuals.
Well there are a lot of familys out there who have raised their bio children in the same household with the same morals, values, etc adn the bio children don't get along! So I don't think that is a valid concern.
I understand your desire to please your father, but in the end the choice is yours and your husbands and God's. Friends and family may voice their opinion to you, but I don't think you should let them make your decision for you.
I believe if it is meant to be then it will happen.
I wish you the best
hugs
snow
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