[cheyenne]

My daughter will be three on Friday and she is taking Atarax to help her sleep along with Melatonin to help with a pattern.
You might ask your doctor about a sleep study to see exactly what the problem is. We had one on our daughter, it showed that she actually stops breathing every other minute.
She has since had her adnoids out and has been seeing a pulmonologist for her asthma and is doing much better.
Not always sleeping though the night, but doing much better.
I know what you are going though, good luck to all involved.