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How do you tell a child why their bios did what they did
My child is coming of the age that she is questioning me about why I use the words adoption and bio mommy.
For two years now I have freely read books and talked about the fact she was adopted. But as for the last few years I am having the same issue. How do I put a positive spin on her bio mom walking away from her and not caring whether or not she lived or died? I know I have to keep it up beat and I want to make sure she understands and I am not sure if this is the age to start trying to explain, but I really feel that I know have to be prepared for this conversation sometime.
See this is what happened. Bio mom left my daughter to die and walked away, a lady found her called 911 and she was placed with us five days after her birth. We have had her for just over two years.
I could make something up and deal with her trying to fine bio mom later in life or I could…do what?? This has always been a problem for me.
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