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I'm angry too!
Originally Posted By Sharon
I know exactly how your feeling. I hired a mediator through the agency where I was adopted. She contacted my birthmother. She wanted nothing to do with me. She was terrified that her husband and son would find out. She was 16 when she had me. She grew up with my birthfather and her husband. She had nothing good to say about my birthfather who she never told about the pregancy. She threatend to sue me and the agency if I bothered her again. She threatend to commit suicide and to move out of the state because whe feared I would find her. All I wanted was to know her and have some background information that she wouldn't even give. I feel very hurt and rejected and will live with this for the rest of my life, but I also realize that she is someone I probably wouldn't want to know. I made contact with my birthfather, who has welcomed me in his life. He has never said anything bad about my birthmother and has given me some information about her. This is comforting. Good Luck. I hope you can find peace with this.
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