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Wow
I have no idea what you did (well, I can guess), but I think the letter sounds heartfelt and remorseful. I don't know the depth of the anger your ex-wife feels or how often she felt deceived by you so I don't know if she will view this letter with an open heart or as a manipulation.
In weighing the decision to send the letter, you need to imagine the worst that will happen and see if it's worth the risk. Since you have no contact with your children, it seems that you have nothing to lose.
Good luck. If you are truly regretful then I hope your ex-family can grant you forgiveness and allow you some contact with your former children.
For what it's worth, I think you did an honorable thing by allowing your ex's husband to adopt your very young children. They needed a real father and it sounds like you weren't able to be that to them at the time. You gave them a great gift.
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