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sibling rivalry
In all families there is sibling rivalry ... just like stress and taxes, it is unavoidable!
In some families there are large age differences between kids and sometimes younger siblings learn 'bad habits' from older kids.
Here are some ways to deal with children when there are large age differences:
Be careful not to become angry or blame older children ... which will cause resentment for the younger one. Set appropriate limits and use natural and logical consequences for behavior. Suggest positive ways that your younger child can emulate his/her older sibling.
Don't fuss over the younger child and disregard the feelings of the older children - this will cause intolerance for the younger child ... remember to be sympathetic to needs and perspectives of all children.
Teach older children about tolerance, understanding and patience with younger siblings ... young children admire and crave attention from older siblings and feel hurt and confused when they are rejected.
Protect the privacy and belongings of older children. Children who are respected by their parents are less likely to be intolerant of younger siblings.
What difficulties have you had with sibling rivalry? What ways have you found helpful to deal with it? Thank goodness school is in session again!
NancyNic
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